In celebrity news, Ronnie Ortiz-Magro allegedly still loves his celebrity ex Sam Giancola. According to UsMagazine.com, a source stated: “Ronnie still loves Sam. Everyone knows it.” This news comes after Ronnie’s recent celebrity break-up with Jen Harley, who is pregnant with his first child. The celebrity exes broke up over the weekend via Instagram for all to see, apparently over the lack of faithfulness in the relationship from both sides. On an episode of Jersey Shore Reunion, Ronnie said that he wasn’t planing on marrying Harley. The reason seems to be because she just isn’t Sam. Ouch! Sammi Sweetheart actually didn’t go back to the Jersey Shore house because of Ronnie, and she is currently dating Christian Biscardi. We wonder where this whole situation is headed.
This celebrity news conveys a concept that many of are not foreign to. How do you deal with realizing you are still in love with your ex.
Sometimes it takes us longer than others to fall out of love with someone. It can depend on who that ex is, how the relationship was, or how it ended. However, cupid has some love advice on how to deal with still loving your ex:
1. Analyze your feelings and the situation: Be sure of what you feel. Sometimes we think we feel one thing when in reality we actually feel another. We are only human, so we do make mistakes. Also, evaluate the situation, think with your mind and not your heart. Only because you love an ex does not mean that you should be with them, or even have them in your life for that matter. Evaluate everything carefully.
2. Keep busy: Be productive. Keep yourself distracted while bettering yourself, that’s the best thing you can do after all. This can also detain you from taking any decisions that you may regret later. Give your mind some time away from your ex and do what you have to do. After giving it some time, take it from there.
3. Get closure: When the time is right that is! Don’t move too quickly. Sometimes what we want is to contact an ex, just for the hell of it. If you need closure, get some. Sometimes instead of closure, things may possibly get fixed, but don’t go into it with expectations. After giving yourself the adequate amount of time and you’re in a place that’s as good as it’s going to get for the moment, go for it.
What are some ways you dealt with realizing you still had feelings for an ex? Comment below!